The other night I had a dating nightmare. An actual bad dream about dating. It was one of those dreams where you wake up and have to look around to make sure that it isn't real and only then can you relax. Now, frequently I have had some bizarre dreams ( Shopping for Katie's wedding at the 99 cent store, only to have it transform to my health club and then have Dan Bahntge hit on me), but was far more real and far more scary. Waking up with a start I had to ask myself, when did the men of my dreams make their way into my nightmares?